Rejoice with those who rejoice, and weep with those who weep.
Romans 12:15
Through my 25 years of being a Christian, truly surrendered to Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior, life has not been a bowl of cherries. There’s been personal loss, betrayal, death, illness—you know, the general brokenness of this fallen world crashing down…just like everyone else. And just like before I was a believer. The difference, however, has been in my response to these situations because of the eternal perspective of God’s providence.
The lens of faith colors every challenge and tragedy (and victory) a bit differently for believers than the view the world sees in these same circumstances. And that can completely bewilder those around us. Sometimes, it even confounds us.
I recently witnessed this truth in a fresh way, as the body of Christ (the Church) demonstrated the love of Jesus—and God’s promises for Christian life came to fruition. A family in my church small group experienced the devastating loss of a child. From the moment our group learned of this, we rallied. We prayed, we texted love and support. One couple immediately went to the hospital to listen, talk, and pray with the family. The next days, more of us, throughout the hospital stay, visited to be present, provide lighthearted distraction, and offer up more prayer. Once home, our group brought meals daily, again visiting with listening ears and gentle kindness. God’s love in action. Biblical living. We are called to weep with those who weep…and we did.
And as this sweet family continued to grieve, they spoke of the unreasonable and inexplicable peace they were experiencing amid their sorrow. God’s Word calls this “peace that passes understanding” (Philippians 6-7)—and it is His promise to us.
This is not about tossing pillow-stitched verses at someone experiencing loss or difficulties. It’s not even about “saying the right thing”. It is about coming around that person or family with love and prayer and a listening ear—not a talking mouth. It’s about knowing the truth: that we, as believers, don’t grieve like the rest of mankind who have no hope—we have confidence that through the death and resurrection of Jesus, we will see our loved ones in Christ again (1 Thessalonians 4:13-14). We hold fast to that eternal perspective. And although there will be times to weep and mourn throughout life (Ecclesiastes 3), God and His people can alter those experiences. There will still be pain, but it’s bathed in something heavenly. It’s altered by the peace of God.
Heavenly Father, living in this fallen world can be so painful. But You have made promises to those who love You—promises for peace and joy that surpass understanding. Thank you for revealing Your love and truth through the body of Christ in this world.